Customer Service Tip- The Danger of Belittling
Posted by Robert Moment in Customer Service on February 14th, 2008 | No Comments »Belittling is a dangerous action that you can do without even knowing.
Belittling:
Saying or doing something that hurts someone and makes them feel put down.
When a courtesy ritual is ignored, for example you don’t acknowledge a customer, that person may feel belittled. Belittling comes from the controlling part of behavior and is the result of insult and judgments.
Examples of belittling statements include:
- Why did you do that?
- Don’t be silly!
- What were you thinking?
- Why didn’t you…
- You shouldn’t do/say that.
- Those people are a pain.
- You should know better.
Take a customer’s problem seriously without passing judgment on them. Demonstrate to your customer that you accept his or her frame of reference – even if it’s not how you would feel yourself. Then take responsibility for solving the problem.
Robert Moment is an innovative customer service consultant, business coach and author of Invisible Profits: The Power of Exceptional Customer Service. Visit Customer Service Training Skills and sign up for the FREE 5 day e-course, Creating “Wow” Customer Service Experiences.